Female Flirting Body Language

It is sometimes good to not to be judgmental when noticing female flirting body language during a party or on occasions where people of both sexes congregate. Flirting is not an immoral act but simply a manifestation of the female desire to go into a relationship with the opposite sex. It is an act employed by women to entice men into pursuing a more than friendly relationship with them. The problem with flirting is that some men do not know how to read certain moves expressed by women. It is probably because these men have no experience in developing a relationship with women or do not know how to interpret the flirtatious acts done by the women. The worst fears of the flirting women is when the men do not become interested in their seductive moves, which is rare situation and should not be a cause for worry since there are many other available men who would be willing to take the bait.

Female Attraction through flirting.  Knowing how to attract men comes naturally to most women and it is through flirting that they announce their availability by non-verbal means. Men should always remember that women will not directly declare that they are ready for a relationship. If the opportunity arises, most women will use female flirting body language to start the process of attracting men and then choosing the right person to partner with. When interacting with women in an oral conversation, one has to always watch for eye contact because this is one of the subtle ways that women show their desire to be wooed and be enamored through passionate courting. When she stares deep into the man’s eyes for a long moment without blinking, it might be the signal for one to begin the process of starting a romantic episode with the woman in question. When she engages in a long eye to eye contact with her man and gives out a coy smile afterwards, it is a confirmation of her subtle unspoken desire to love and to be loved. This is simple flirting that usually captures the interest of the man she comes in contact with.

Simple female flirting moves. As previously mentioned, eye contact can be the avenue used by women for flirting. There are other flirting moves that cannot escape notice by most men.   Head movements made by the female also send out signs that they need to be loved and cared for. For example, a gentle tilting of the head and parting of the hair to show some parts of the neck signifies that she wants to be touched in these sensitive areas. This is especially true when the female starts to run her fingers though her hair, making caressing movements that cannot be missed by the men nearby.

If one is the only man present when such moves are made, he is extremely lucky as he has obviously been chosen as the man of the hour. The mouth and the lips are also erotic places where a female can lure his man into wooing her. Showing her man as she wets her lips is a direct invitation for the man to start his romantic approach. This can be confirmed when fingers and /or anything sweet and edible like ice cream cones are placed in and out of the mouth and teasingly licked by the woman in question. These moves are simple flirting moves made by females that can strongly entice the men into revealing their love and devotion.

Uncovering subtle female flirting. There are times when some women use subtle flirtatious moves that are not so obvious that most men miss the golden opportunity to recognize them. Bonding with women with such sophisticated moves is somewhat harder and will require a degree of class that only an expert in the field possesses. Most of these sophisticated body movements are based on how the female carries herself while standing up, sitting or reclining on a sofa in the presence of men who are attracted to her. Reading the body language in such situations is not easy and one will need a flirting body language guide to be able to solve the mystery involved in this subtle flirting. In today’s state of general information, the internet is one place where one can hope to find the answers. There is a website in the internet that can publish   answers to these puzzling situations. One has only to visit the website to find out the refinements of interpreting  flirtatious body language.

The direct body language approach.  The use of the hands is a more direct way of using body language for flirting especially if it is in the form of touching hands or any form of holding of hands between a man and a woman.  Some even claim that the use of hands is the ultimate kind of female flirting body language. When a woman allows herself to be touched by his man on the hands, it is a sign of totally surrendering her will to the man since this is already a form of eroticism that symbolizes the start of a bewildering romantic fling.

The Art of Body Language

Many are often misinterpreted by the people around them. Sometimes, they wonder what they did wrong to deserve it. There are also times that these people feel disappointed because as much as they want to project a side of themselves to others, they remain misinterpreted for their actions. To avoid these feelings of frustrations and disappointments from misinterpreted actions like this, it is high time that one learn the language behind the spoken words.

Body language includes non-verbal actions that people do when they interact with others. According to experts, it is roughly two-thirds of the actual communication process. For this reason, people ought to know the basic do’s and don’ts. In addition to this, this kind of language is usually harder to interpret when compared with oral language. In fact, this is often misinterpreted by many people. Many think that what was said in a conversation by the speaker already contains his real thoughts about the topic. Little did they know that what was being talked about during conversations involved only one-third of the actual communication process.

Why is it important?
  
Actions often speak louder than words. Some things are better off being shown rather than being said. Occasionally, there are also words that are said but were not meant by the speaker. When this happens, misunderstandings tend arise. To avoid conflict, one must have an idea of what the speaker really meant. An individual can usually gain information through the non-verbal signals that someone have displayed.

Body language is very vital to an effective communication process.  It is a very helpful tool to be successful in one’s endeavors in life. For instance, it can help a businessman read the movements of their clients in order to close a deal with them. It also enables an interviewer to be more aware of the applicant’s personality during a job interview.  Aside from these, it also aids doctors in interpreting the conditions and ailments of their patients. There are countless ways to use it in real life. It’s correct exhibition and interpretation leads to harmonious relationship with other people.

How does posture affects body language?

Good posture matters. The way one stands or walks can affect the way he is being perceived by the people around him. If someone stands or walks confidently even if he is not too tall, his height will not matter. He will look taller compared to his original height and to others. No one will dare get in his way. In the same way, a person who walks and stands in a slouching position with his hands on his sides or in the front of his body can be deemed as a person having a very low self-esteem.

The position of the legs when talking to someone also plays a role in exhibiting nonverbal communication. If an individual is standing and having a casual conversation with someone, he must make sure that his feet is in a cross-legged position at the ankles as this implies that he is having a comfortable time with the people he is talking to. This is very particular especially to women. On the other hand, if he is having a very important talk with someone say an argument for example, he must make sure that his legs are wide apart. This position tells the other person that he is fearless.

The position of the arms of a person is also important to exude that air of confidence. Crossing one’s arms for example can mean different things in different situations. It can imply that one is intimidated by the other person in an argument. It can also indicate that a person doesn’t want to talk to the other person. In addition to these, it can also mean that someone is simply more comfortable in that position. Whether an individual tries to cross his arms because he is frightened or he is just comfortable about it, he should be aware of his actions because it can send different signals to the person he is talking to.

Having good posture exudes an air of confidence. In order to look good in the eyes of others, one must first look good first in their own eyes. Also, individuals should note the importance of consistent eye to eye contact during conversations. Eye to eye contact is a must in initiating talks and conversations because this suggests interest, truthfulness and sincerity. This is also one of the most important elements of the art of nonverbal communication. 

How accurate is it?

Body language can be a helpful tool in interpreting nonverbal signals exhibited by a person. However, this does not mean that it is always accurate and reliable. Sometimes, people fail to recognize the reason behind some actions that were shown to them. In some cases, people are also often biased regarding the people they are talking to that they tend to oversee body languages displayed by the other person.  When these situations arise, one’s knowledge in the art of this language may be impaired or prejudiced. Whatever the reasons are for misinterpreting body language signs, it should be noted that its accuracy always depends on the mindset and interpretation of its interpreter. As much as possible one must avoid misinterpreting non-verbal actions because if they are misinterpreted, there are also greater chances of conflicts and misunderstandings.